JAMES FELLOWSHIP

Conquering Sex Addiction

JAMES FELLOWSHIP

We’re glad you’re here! Sexual addiction is a lonely journey. We believe that walking together is a better way. We help men find victory over their addiction through a biblically redeemed approach to the 12 steps. We’d love to have you join us.

YOUR QUESTIONS, ANSWERED

Who Is James For?

Men, over the age of 18, who know they have a problem.

Do I Have A Problem?

Please honestly answer the 18 questions below.

Closed or Open Group?

We are an open group and you’re always welcome.

What Do I Bring?

We’ll have any readings printed and ready for you.

When Is The Next Meeting?

Check out the meeting information page for details on when meetings are held.

Is This Confidential?

We have men from all walks of life and different stories. Confidentiality is the core of our program.

STILL HAVE QUESTIONS?
DON'T WORRY!

18 Questions
To Consider

If you answered “yes” to three or more of these questions, we invite you to consider visiting the James Fellowship.

18 Questions
To Consider

If you answered “yes” to three or more of these questions, we invite you to consider visiting the James Fellowship.

  1. Have you spent time looking at pornography online?
  2. Have you viewed pornography even when there was a risk of being caught by family members who would be upset by my behavior?
  3. When you have sex or look at pornography, do you feel depressed afterward?
  4. Do you feel preoccupied with sexual thoughts or that your sexual behavior is not normal?
  5. Has sex (or romantic fantasies) been a way for you to escape your problems?
  6. After sexually acting out, do you sometimes refrain from all sex for a significant period of time?
  7. Have you made efforts to quit sexual activity (online pornography or otherwise) and failed?
  8. Has your sexual behavior ever emotionally hurt or created problems for you and your family?

God used the brotherhood and content of James Fellowship as a primary resource for my freedom journey. I learned I wasn’t alone in my battle and that isolation is not God’s design. Through the step work, God revealed the root causes of my sexual sin and provided a framework for evaluating multiple areas of struggle in my life. This work, along with a mind being renewed in my identity in Christ, has kept me on the freedom path.

Participating in James has transformed my life. The group has given me a community to support the “heart-level” work while also providing practical tools to help break my addiction. I’m a better and more joy-filled believer, husband, father, and professional because of this group.

Sexual addiction is an exhausting and isolating journey. James Fellowship is a proven approach that combats the endless cycle of sexual addiction by offering a better joy in a relationship with brothers who desire victory over addiction. James Fellowship’s commitment to accountability, encouragement, and grace makes it a standout ministry that inspires hope and lasting change.

Answer Each "Yes" If It Has Ever Applied To You.

  1. Have you spent time looking at pornography online?
  2. Have you viewed pornography even when there was a risk of being caught by family members who would be upset by my behavior?
  3. When you have sex or look at pornography, do you feel depressed afterward?
  4. Do you feel preoccupied with sexual thoughts or that your sexual behavior is not normal?
  5. Has sex (or romantic fantasies) been a way for you to escape your problems?
  6. After sexually acting out, do you sometimes refrain from all sex for a significant period of time?
  7. Have you made efforts to quit sexual activity (online pornography or otherwise) and failed?
  8. Has your sexual behavior ever emotionally hurt or created problems for you and your family?
  9. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior you did not like?
  10. Do you hide some of your sexual behaviors from others?
  11. Have you felt degraded by your sexual behaviors?
  12. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire
  13. Do you ever think your sexual desire is stronger than you are?
  14. Have you used the internet to make romantic or erotic connections with people online?
  15. Have you subscribed or purchased sexually explicit materials (pornography, videos, magazines, books), paid for sex, or traded sex for money or gifts?
  16. Have you engaged in unsafe, “risky,” or illegal sexual activities even though I knew it could cause me harm?
  17. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
  18. Did your parents have trouble with sexual behavior?

If you answered “yes” to three or more of these questions, we invite you to consider visiting the James Fellowship.